The gist of this post is this: “It seems to me obvious that the more people you meet, the more likely it is that you will meet and marry someone appropriate. If you really want to meet and marry someone.”   Carolyn Kaufman Psy.D., writes for Psychology today, and answers questions like: What changes can...Read More

I always seem to pick the same kind of guy but in a different model.  Maybe it’s because I live, work, and date in Orange County but I feel like I keep meeting the same kind of guy over and over again. Also realistically speaking, my social circle is only so big and I don’t...Read More

If you’re single, don’t worry. Science has shown it’s actually better for you in a number of ways. But if you find yourself crying over the fact nobody wants to be in a relationship with you, there’s a psychological reason that might help explain why – provided you have a healthy attachment style and don’t...Read More

The Spice Girls, my own personal saviors, and inspiration have a beautiful song that very eloquently states, “If you want to be with my lover you have to get with my friends”. That kind of mentality might have worked in the 90’s but grunge is dead and so is ganging up on a complete stranger...Read More

We’ve all been there: a promising first date is crashing and burning right before your eyes and you can’t decide if you have it in you to sit through the rest of the meal. If you’re not feeling it or the guy you’re with is just plain weird, how do you know when or if...Read More