I love the people in my life, but I can’t make them happy and I’m done trying. For a long time, I’ve held myself responsible for the happiness of the other people in my life. I’ve pushed myself to the brink of exhaustion and I’ve realized that it doesn’t really make a difference. It only...Read More

The Spice Girls, my own personal saviors, and inspiration have a beautiful song that very eloquently states, “If you want to be with my lover you have to get with my friends”. That kind of mentality might have worked in the 90’s but grunge is dead and so is ganging up on a complete stranger...Read More

So, you think you’re finally done navigating the tumultuous seas of the dating world? You found someone who doesn’t mind your morning breath and daily Netflix’s binges. Awesome! You even had the “where is this going?” talk and you made it through to the other side. Even better! But now you’re deciding to move in together. Oh,...Read More

Baggage: we all have it. Hey, life is tough and we make mistakes down the road we wish we could do over. The Big Mistake To Stop Making One mistake that I can stop you from making now is talking about your ex on dates or with your significant others. I cannot even begin to...Read More

We’ve all been there: a promising first date is crashing and burning right before your eyes and you can’t decide if you have it in you to sit through the rest of the meal. If you’re not feeling it or the guy you’re with is just plain weird, how do you know when or if...Read More